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That Guy Who Invited You to His Frat Date Night is The One

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Andreana Lee Saturday, Nov. 22, 2025Sat, Nov 22, 2025

Be honest. From the fateful day when you received his summons via Snapchat, you've known that That Guy who invited you to his frat date night is The One. When he first liked your story, you heard wedding bells ring; you had visions of telling your kids about how you bagged Touse in your prime. We're here to tell you that he is your twin flame. He was sent to take you away from all this— and the signs have always been there. Think about it.

1. He's resourceful.

As you walk together from your dorm gate (he avoids entering his PAC code for the sake of efficiency), you can't help but notice that his suit looks familiar. You think back to his highlights and LinkedIn. That's it: he's been repurposing the same outfit for interviews, formals, and the other date nights you weren't invited to. You love a man that cares about the environment, and you love that he's saving tonight's date night just for you.

2. You have a lot in common.

In heels, you discover that the two of you are the same height. You also share a penchant for Pink Whitney and men.

3. His commitment is clear. 

You haven't quite spoken since then— and every time you pass by that house, you feel a wave of malice and despair— but you can feel that he's working up the courage to reach out. The intensity of your romance may have overwhelmed him; it's not every day that you find that kind of connection. For your part, you are ready to take the leap until death or Hinge infidelity do you part. There just remains the probable chance that he doesn't swing your way, in which case it might be best to take a lap.